soih:
this whole trend of using “femme-only, femme-centric, femme-identified” labeling to replace spaces for women freaks me the fuck out because the words and parameters are always specifically spun in a way that intentionally excludes gender nonconforming / butch women and pits them as the inherent opposite of women
Definitions for femme used also tend to exclude black women as well.
Woman-aligned is an alternate term if that’s what you mean.