I’m bi, nb, and gnc and I’m talking to this cis bi guy who seems really cool and we might be seeing a movie together next week but like since I’ve only ever dated women I’m worried that if I date him people will think I’ve “turned straight” or see it as a confirmation that my relationships with women were just a Slutty College Bi Girl Phase.

tomcats-and-tophats:

Unfortunately there are people who think like that. But – and I know it’s easier said than done, believe me – one of the best things you can do for yourself is understand that those people are fucking idiots. You’re a whole person and you have every right to live life as your whole self, miles above the people like that who only seem to think in two dimensions.

Take it easy, anon, and I hope your date goes well!