it’s okay to disagree with people. the dialectical nature of existence provides a really wonderful opportunity to synthesize a variety of perspectives and continually encourage the growth and change of those perspectives. just keep in mind that thoughts, words, and actions can have serious consequences that you may not desire for yourself. at that point you have to reflect on your values and see what’s really important to you and figure out if the way you have been going about things to achieve those goals is really providing a healthier, happier, more fulfilled worthwhile life for you and those around you.