beyonslayed:

I need everyone to stop thinking that monogamy is a problem that polyamory solves so we can all finally recognize that relationships under patriarchy, be they monogamous or polyamorous, are afflicted with the same power imbalance skewed towards men leading to the whole set of problems (e.g. infidelity, abuse, uneven distribution of labor in relationships) that we’ve come to erroneously associate with monogamy thanks for coming to my Ted talk