tfw you’re bisexual and admiring pretty girls but then you remember you’re also attracted to men and you’re like “that’s cool too” because men are fine as hell and there’s nothing wrong with your attraction to them
I like how the op is gender netural for all my bi boys and nb folks out there
Having an argument on tumblr is like being in the garden.
I’m doing some weeding when I see a guy walk by with his dog. He stops and lets his dog poop in my roses.
I say “hey dude, sorry, could you not let your dog poop in my roses? Or at least clean it up?”
A different dude walking HIS dog on the other side of the street, in the opposite direction, hears this and stops. Despite having a clear line of sight to the first guy’s pooping dog, he gets offended and begins yelling back at me,
“Wow, I can’t believe you think that just because I’m walking a dog I can’t take care of it. Not all dog owners are irresponsible!”
The lady watering her petunias in the house behind him hears this and nods in agreement, saying, “People these days are so quick to judge, why doesn’t anyone know how to mind their own business?”
Guy number one’s dog is still pooping. He’s on his phone, oblivious to everything else. Everyone can still see his pooping dog.
“Sorry for the confusion, but-“ I start, but guy 2 is talking again, just to say,
“You know I bet you don’t even like dogs, that’s why you’re being such an asshole!”
My dog, sitting on the porch, has her ears perked up wondering what all the loud noises are about, but she mostly just wants to play with the other dog when he’s done his endless metaphor poop.
I try to point her out but some other neighbor suddenly pops out their window. Aghast, they shout, “what’s this I’m hearing about HATING DOGS?”
It continues like that. I can’t get a word in. Guy #1s dog finally finishes up and they just leave. The other three people stand around agreeing with each other. There is still poop in my roses.
The next day I put up a “please pick up after your dog” sign in my garden. Then the neighbourhood kids run by, and as they do I hear one of them hiss, “I can’t believe op is a dogphobe.”
Facebook sucks for countless reasons ofc, but “I don’t even have Facebook” is quickly becoming the new version of 2005’s “I don’t even own a TV!”
Wait, shit, this is blatant “I don’t even have a smartphone” erasure
I have an IRL friend who tied her phone number to a landline for the nostalgia but kept her smartphone without a data plan. She just uses it all the time anyway with WiFi and I struggle to see the point of why she bothered with that.
GNC bi women who are dating or prefer feminine women are not predatory, manipulative or in any way like men
I mean… it depends on the individual person, just like with men.
The vast majority of them are not, just like with men. But you should still watch out for those who are.
me: gnc bi girls shouldn’t feel guilty about being attracted to girls based on homophobic stereotypes about us that nonsensically compare us to an oppressor class
you: but actually you should be constantly on the lookout for manly predatory bi girls, just in case one actually is a predator! i am very intelligent
Ah thanks. Im pretty sure my intelligence level is perfectly average, tho.
Whether a bi girl is manly or not has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not she is predatory. Predators can be of any gender, race, sexuality, gender exoression, etc. If recognizing this makes you angry, then maybe you should ask yourself why you want to pretend bi girls cannot be predatory.
Gay men can be predatory. Lesbians can be predatory. Trans women can be predatory. Trans men can be predatory. Non binary people can be predatory. Cis people can be predatory. Heterosexuals can be predatory. Black people can be predatory. White people can be predatory. Latinos can be predatory. Literally any person can be predatory.
If you wanna go ahead and stick your fingers in your ears and go “la la la I can’t hear you bi girls can nevervbe predatory la la la” well then, go ahead. But don’t pretend we all have to do the same along with you.
Not sure what post you’re responding to because the op literally does not say that gnc bi women cannot be predatory. It says that we are not inherently predatory for dating women more feminine than us. It is a direct response to people who try to push the idea that we are all predatory by virtue of being gnc alone.
Sounds like you might have some personal issues you need to work on if you projected all that onto a post that wasn’t intended for you, and which you clearly missed the context and point of so disastrously 🤔🤔🤔
The “
in any way like men” in @tomcats-and-tophats post refers to the ability to perpetuate institutional sexism.
There’s a difference between that and individual predatory behavior. Women, as individuals can be predatory but women as a marginalized class can’t perpetuate institutional sexism.
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