ricafrede:

rush-keating:

rush-keating:

I don’t get how someone can be against anti-shipping and also against weird shit at Pride.

“Write as much weird fic as you want and I will support you but don’t be weird IRL or you’re disrespectful and should stop.”

And now I know of at least THREE people who hold this contradictory position.

Your explicit kinky Reylo fic is squicking someone else out just as much as you are squicked out by makeout sessions at Pride. Just letting y’all know that.

tbh i think they would probably say fic is mostly private, or at least only seen by people explicitly looking for it, and pride is public. that said, “too much pda at a public event!” reminds me of when i was young and i would get afraid that my parents were acting like fobs without realizing it because of internalized racism. it’s at least partly internalized homophobia that they just need to sort through. if they’re really having an issue where they’re being dragged into pda situations against their will then they need to have a conversation about consent, not pda

I think it depends on the medium the fic is on. Like for example tumblr’s recommendation algorithm keeps recommending me c137cest because I follow the Rick and Morty tag and it’s only because the folks who make it are kind enough to tag that I don’t see it unfiltered. If they didn’t tag then I would have to choose whether to unfollow the “rick and morty” tag altogether or deal with seeing it sometimes.