tomcats-and-tophats:

madnessendsbutwhen:

tomcats-and-tophats:

madnessendsbutwhen:

tomcats-and-tophats:

GNC bi women who are dating or prefer feminine women are not predatory, manipulative or in any way like men

I mean… it depends on the individual person, just like with men.

The vast majority of them are not, just like with men. But you should still watch out for those who are.

me: gnc bi girls shouldn’t feel guilty about being attracted to girls based on homophobic stereotypes about us that nonsensically compare us to an oppressor class

you: but actually you should be constantly on the lookout for manly predatory bi girls, just in case one actually is a predator! i am very intelligent

Ah thanks. Im pretty sure my intelligence level is perfectly average, tho.

Whether a bi girl is manly or not has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not she is predatory. Predators can be of any gender, race, sexuality, gender exoression, etc. If recognizing this makes you angry, then maybe you should ask yourself why you want to pretend bi girls cannot be predatory.

Gay men can be predatory. Lesbians can be predatory. Trans women can be predatory. Trans men can be predatory. Non binary people can be predatory. Cis people can be predatory. Heterosexuals can be predatory. Black people can be predatory. White people can be predatory. Latinos can be predatory. Literally any person can be predatory.

If you wanna go ahead and stick your fingers in your ears and go “la la la I can’t hear you bi girls can nevervbe predatory la la la” well then, go ahead. But don’t pretend we all have to do the same along with you.

Not sure what post you’re responding to because the op literally does not say that gnc bi women cannot be predatory. It says that we are not inherently predatory for dating women more feminine than us. It is a direct response to people who try to push the idea that we are all predatory by virtue of being gnc alone.

Sounds like you might have some personal issues you need to work on if you projected all that onto a post that wasn’t intended for you, and which you clearly missed the context and point of so disastrously 🤔🤔🤔

The “
in any way like men” in @tomcats-and-tophats post refers to the ability to perpetuate institutional sexism.
There’s a difference between that and individual predatory behavior. Women, as individuals can be predatory but women as a marginalized class can’t perpetuate institutional sexism.