kidgecat:

jaspersforever:

thyrell:

thyrell:

how come ace exclusionists can make entire blogs dedicated to posting weird shit in the ace positivity tag and mostly get ignored but one ace person says something in poor taste and every ace person on this website suddenly has to be able to prove theyre not “one of the bad ones” to be taken seriously

like so far i have seen one (1) post by a 15 year old about how ppl kissing at pride makes them uncomfortable, and dozens of condescending posts telling ace people not to come to pride events because there will be gay people there kissing

also: fake troll ace blogs purposefully saying bigoted/weird/embarrassing stuff and everyone falling for it (either out of willful ignorance or not)

It’s exhausting, especially as someone who tries to avoid the discourse and is in the main acronym regardless of asexuality. I shouldn’t have to see the hate. The many of us who mind our business, who are respectful of the gay and trans communities and may be a part of them ourselves, shouldn’t have to put up with obsessed freaks making a hobby out of shoehorning hate onto our dashboards under the guise of positivity and outside observers accepting really obvious aphobe sock puppet accounts at face value.